Women With An Exceptionally High Vibration Never Tolerate 8 Specific Behaviors From Men
llaszlo / ShutterstockWomen with a higher vibration than everyone else are self-assured without being arrogant and don’t let negative energy into their lives. They know exactly what and who they want.
These women won’t put up with certain bad behaviors that men use to try to get their attention because they know they’re better than that. Allowing a low-vibrational person access to their mental and emotional energy will only bring them down, so there’s no way they would lower their standards for anyone.
Women who have a high vibration don’t tolerate men who behave in these ways
1. Using humor as an excuse to hurt her feelings
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There’s a really fine line between a good-natured joke and one that comes across as an insult. A lot of relationships have a playful undertone that makes teasing totally acceptable, but some men think it’s OK to make fun of women if they do it with a joke. But getting a few laughs doesn’t make it any less hurtful. High-vibe women who respect themselves won’t put up with that.
It’s not that hard to tell when someone is putting another person down and disguising it as a joke. That’s when things get so personal that it’s embarrassing and everyone else is left wondering how to respond.
2. They don’t hold themselves accountable
Women with a high vibration don’t have time for men who don’t take responsibility for their actions. We’ve all seen guys like this who never apologize and shift blame onto others, and it’s not a good look.
People often struggle with accountability because they’ve learned to associate it with the feeling of shame. It’s totally possible to hold yourself and others accountable without turning it into some kind of humiliation ritual, though. It really comes down to someone’s perspective. Immature men don’t know how to see the bigger picture.
3. They try to undermine her independence
Traditional gender roles have put men in a powerful position for a really long time. As wild as it sounds, a lot of men are afraid of losing that power to the women in their lives. It’s pretty clear the world isn’t moving in that direction anytime soon, but that doesn’t change the twinge of intimidation that they feel when they see a successful, self-reliant woman.
These men try to hold women back, which is unacceptable for high vibration women. They’re confident in who they are, and they don’t need someone else’s permission to be themselves, so they don’t waste time on men who act that way.
4. They never show up consistently
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It’s super unsettling when someone showers you with attention one day and acts like you don’t exist the next. It really calls the whole relationship into question. How could they be serious if they can’t be consistent?
High vibe women pick up on this behavior immediately and don’t keep those men in their lives. They don’t need to be stuck in a hot-and-cold situation that’s making them question their value. Men who can’t be there for them all the time are men who aren’t worth the effort.
5. They make her question their intentions
Communicating well might be one of the hardest parts of a relationship, especially in the early stages. Both men and women struggle to express themselves in a way the other person can understand.
That’s not the kind of thing you can just give up on. Solid communication is the foundation of good relationships. A man who can’t communicate can’t explain what his hopes are for the relationship or what he wants the future to look like. That leaves women trying to fill in the blanks with their best guesses. Not only is that unfair, but it’s also not something that confident women are going to put up with for long.
6. They compare her to other women
It’s not uncommon for insensitive men to compare the women they’re with to someone else. Any kind of social comparison can hurt, but it seems even worse when it’s coming from the person who’s supposed to care about you the most. That makes both partners feel like the relationship is off.
When a woman knows who she is, she’s not going to tolerate a man who compares her to others, especially if he’s trying to make her feel insecure so she’s easier to manipulate somehow.
7. They act entitled to her attention
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You can’t really be in a relationship with someone you ignore, but there’s a big difference between giving someone the attention they deserve and making them the center of your universe.
Men who feel entitled think women owe them something. That can look like always responding right away and canceling other plans to spend time with them. If a woman is secure, she’ll want to be with a man who feels the same way. Someone who begs for attention like a puppy isn’t going to cut it.
8. They excuse their need for control as love
Some men try to control women’s lives and then act like they’re doing them a favor because it’s all part of how they take care of them. That’s insanely manipulative, but somehow they convince themselves it’s acceptable.
Women with a high vibe see through this behavior right away. They know the difference between a man who cares and a man who wants to be in control, and they don’t let the second kind of guy stick around.
Mary-Faith Martinez is a writer with a bachelor’s degree in English and Journalism who covers news, psychology, lifestyle, and human interest topics.
