People With Bad Work Boundaries Usually Have 5 Habits At Home

Being overworked has become a way of life for many people, and it all comes down to having bad work boundaries.

You can tell when someone has made their dedication to their job go a bit overboard by some everyday habits that are actually indicators they're way overextended, and they're so subtle you might not even realize they're problematic.

Habits people who struggle with work boundaries have at home:

1. Their house is messy

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There are many reasons your space can be a bit cluttered, especially if you have kids. But your living space can be a sign that your work is getting the best version of you, and you're too tired and overwhelmed to give yourself the joy of a clean home.

Science has long found a link between messiness and mental health, including a 2012 study that found people living in cluttered houses tend to have elevated levels of the stress hormone cortisol. So if your house is in some level of disarray, it might be worth considering whether work is causing the problem.

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2. They eat a lot of convenient meals

Continually reaching for frozen dinners or fast food might be an indicator you're spread too thin. Ignoring your basic needs means you are simply too tired to take care of yourself.

This is an indication that you're disconnected from yourself, which means your nervous system is out of whack. It might be time to pull back a bit. 

3. They choose to numb

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If you're the type who goes immediately for mind-numbing activities after work like aimlessly scrolling social media or disappearing into a binge-watch, that's a major sign that you're doing all you can to cope with a high level of stress. 

Doing something like a hobby or an activity you enjoy, which requires energy, is off the table, so your nervous system wants you to soothe it by disconnecting. Finding a way to pull back from work might be in order.

In the meantime, psychologists say breathing exercises, stretches, and, if you can muster it, a short walk are much more beneficial when you're totally depleted.

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4. Their appearance is suffering

When a person is overwhelmed by work and fails to set boundaries, their self-care usually suffers. That's because when you're burned out, things that make you feel good become a low priority.

And mental health professionals say when hygiene and personal care feel like too big a lift, it's a sign someone is mentally overwhelmed or unwell, especially for those who are neurodivergent.

5. Things like their bills being unpaid become normal

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Much like a cluttered home, small but important lapses like unopened mail and no groceries in the house are a sign you need to set better work boundaries. 

If doing one more thing feels impossible, that's the breaking point. It might be time to step back and put yourself first. Not only will you benefit by giving your mind and body more space, but more than likely your work will too.

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John Sundholm is a writer, editor, and video personality with 20 years of experience in media and entertainment. He covers culture, mental health, and human interest topics.